6 How To Maintenance Bonding Between Children And Parents For Harmonious Relations

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JAKARTA - In order to be able to accompany your little one at every stage of maximum growth and development, every parent needs to establish emotional closeness with their child from an early age. Unfortunately, until now not a few parents think this is difficult to do.

In fact, actually building an intimate relationship or bonding with children is not difficult. Curious, like what? This is how it is reported by Very Well Family, Wednesday, June 14.

A research agency showed that eating together between parents and children can improve health, better eating habits, strong mental, emotional, and social skills, better behavior patterns and academic achievements.

Although you find it difficult to find dinner time every night, schedule meals with your family whenever and as much as you can. If you are too busy working at night, then the solution is to spend breakfast or snack together. The key is to create a fun atmosphere when having dinner so that bonding can be established.

Just like dinner, bedtime is a great opportunity to chat with kids about activities that have been done for one day. You can ask a question that will encourage them to answer in detail, like 'what's the funny thing going on today?' or 'what's the best thing that's going on to you today.'

Then make sure you also share with your children in the details of what you ask your child to do. By sharing something about you, it shows your children that you value them as individuals and feel close enough to trust them. You also strengthen your bond and show your child that they are important to you.

One of the best ways to bond with kids is to have fun together. Cycling or playing football can be a fun activity. It can also be by playing fun games or games that can encourage them to practice social skills and good behavior.

Children are sometimes annoying and can certainly make mistakes. But parents should remember that treating children with respect is as important as disciplining children. Even if your child has done something that requires you to discipline it, you can speak to them calmly andFULly. Shouting or using physical punishment proves not only less effective, but can also damage the quality of your relationship with your child.

Chance is not just a great way to stay connected to children and strengthen the bond of the elderly. But research also shows that it can even reduce stress and anxiety. So tell your child how much you love him with lots of hugs throughout the day and he will grow up to be a child who doesn't hesitate to hug you back.

In addition to having a positive impact on child psychology, it is also important for children to feel special to strengthen their ties with them. Because this indirectly makes him realize that parents love him very much. Makes children feel special easy to do. You can do it through small things, such as giving him surprises in certain moments like his birthday.