5 Ways To Build High Self-Esteem In Children

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JAKARTA - Self-esteem is basically the way children view themselves, including what they think about themselves and their ability to do something. This is formed by how much they feel loved, and how much support and encouragement (or criticism) they receive from important people in life, such as parents and teachers.

Healthy self-esteem is not feeling haphazard,pansic, or feeling entitled. Balance children's self-esteem with other important values such as instilling empathy, being kind, having good character, doing charity, and having gratitude.

Here, VOI presents seven ways to build high self-esteem in children, reported by Very Well Family, Tuesday, February 27.

Showing love for children makes them feel safe and have very important views of themselves. Unconditional love for parents in children becomes the basis for all healthy and strong relationships that they will form in the future.

So, hug the child when saying goodbye to leaving the house, lying together and reading books, and expressing love every day. As children grow, this love foundation will help them build social circles, make friends, and bond with teammates.

When you play with your children, it shows them that you like spending time with them and you value being with them. Have fun with your children offers many benefits both for your children and parents.

Children not only develop confidence in their ability to become attractive and entertaining people who can form strong social bonds. However, research shows the opportunity for a child to feel happy increases and the risk of depression and anxiety decreases when they engage in healthy games with their parents.

Responsible for tasks that are appropriate according to age will give children goals and achievements. Even if they don't do something perfectly, tell the child you value their efforts. Respect them for everything they do well. And convince them that over time, they will be better in many ways, including homework.

Having duties and responsibilities also gives children a sense of control over their lives. And when things are unpredictable, having a responsibility for small work at home can be very helpful in building confidence and resilience.

Elementary school years are a rapid period of growth in children's independence. By the time they reach high school age, many children start spending time alone at home, walk to school alone, and help their younger siblings.

It is important to teach children to grow independently. In a way, let them think about how to talk to their own teacher about any problems, manage homework assignments, and make sure school uniforms are packed and ready. The so-called helicopter care weakens the children's ability to do things on their own and has a negative impact on their self-esteem. It also seizes their autonomy.

When your child behaves badly or does something that makes you frustrated, make sure to separate that behavior from your child. You are human When your child makes emotions, you may be annoyed or even angry. Experiencing these feelings is a natural thing, but don't let it badmouth or embarrass your child.

Instead, talk to the child calmly. Don't scream. Get out of your emotions but don't get angry. A good way to do this is to use natural and logical consequences, and speak to the child in a fun and friendly tone.