Here's How To Melt An Angry Man

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JAKARTA - Feeling angry is a very natural thing for everyone. However, the way people show it and how long they feel anger will, of course, vary. If your partner is currently angry and you are confused to deal with it, there is no need to worry. This is how to melt an angry man.

Keep calm

Avoid making things worse by getting angry at him. Make sure you don't sulk let alone insinuate when he's angry. By remaining calm, you can suppress his emotions so they don't explode.

Give yourself space

Generally, men prefer to keep their emotions in check, it could be by being silent and confining themselves. If your partner chooses this, respect his decision and give him space to be alone. Avoid bombarding him with lots of questions because he'll only get angrier.

Be patient

Anger can come with anxiety, disappointment, sadness, fear or pain. To deal with an angry husband, of course, it takes extraordinary patience so that his heart can melt again and the relationship is good again.

Even though you sometimes get annoyed or want to argue, you as a wife should be able to hold back and increase your patience because at least this can reduce your household problems and not be too dramatic.

This patience can be realized by calming yourself down, waiting for your partner to be angry until calm, not arguing, not getting angry, and not reacting which can make the husband even more angry.

Avoid blaming husband

Even if you feel that your husband did something wrong and that the problems he is experiencing are his own fault, you should not blame him when he is angry. Hold back the feeling of wanting to nag and let him know that maybe he's in the wrong. This will make the husband feel unappreciated, even by his own wife.

Remember to continue to be patient and restrain yourself for the common good. When you make a mistake, chances are you've already realized it yourself, right? So, no need to blame anymore because it will worsen the existing situation.

I am sorry

If your husband's anger stems from your previous attitude or speech, don't hesitate to apologize! A sincere apology from the heart will be able to melt the husband's anger. You can apologize for saying things that hurt her, let her know you feel sorry and guilty, and promise not to make the same mistake again.

Heart to heart discussion

Lately, your relationship is having a lot of problems and makes your husband often angry? Well, there's nothing wrong with asking your husband to talk from heart to heart so that you both understand what really happened. You can just chat when your husband is relaxed or even before bed.

Anyway, make sure the atmosphere when chatting is relaxed so you can talk calmly and both are no longer emotional. Of course you can ask about the problems faced by your husband, why he is often angry, and ask what you can help to make his burden feel lighter.