It's Better To Be Honest, Because Lying To Couples Is At Risk Of Experiencing These 6 Things

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YOGYAKARTA Hidden information or kept certain information from your partner, not only disturbing the harmony of the relationship. But it also shakes the mental condition, such as feeling isolated to depressed. Of course a person will feel guilty when he lies. When a person lies or keeps a secret, unknowingly they will experience the following risks.

When a person and his partner have intimacy, the relationship will feel comfortable and warm. But if you are colored by just a few lies, trust is at stake. Relationships will feel cold because lies make your partner emotionally unrelated even though physically they can still touch each other.

When lied to, someone feels disappointed that the pain is not congested. Actually, how much pain is not equivalent to the level of lies. Sometimes, small lies stored for too long can cause greater pain.

Not only eroded trust, but someone who has been lied to also feels insecure. He was worried that he would be lied to again and again. As for people who lie, of course, they also feel insecure because they are worried that their secret will be revealed. He also feels anxious caused by feelings of guilt for lying.

Still because of guilt, in the long term lying can undermine self-esteem. Feelings of guilt can also lead to shame after lies are revealed. In fact, lies can also damage self-esteem and hardness as a person.

Someone who lies will close the information meeting that he has hidden. In fact, he can create scenarios to rationalize his lies to avoid being exposed. Launching Psychology Today, Monday, September 9, some people who lie become obsessed with their lies. To the extent that they find it difficult to concentrate on other things.

Of course lying doesn't make lies feel comfortable. Although lying is sometimes chosen for protection or defense. However, according to research, lying can cause health problems and mental stress. The victim may avoid, worry, suspicion, and anger.

Secrets can actually cause real risks and cause shame to family dysfunctions. In a romantic relationship, lies can risk poisoning relationships and sowing seeds of distrust.