JAKARTA - The way to educate or foster parents towards children must change along with the growth of children. The way to educate when children are children is certainly different when they are teenagers.

If parents cannot apply parenting according to age, it will certainly affect their growth and development in the future. When children get older, parents cannot continue to be with their children. Because teenagers already have the desire to play with their peers.

Launching from Psych Central, Monday, August 19, there are several ways that parents can apply in raising teenagers. So that the emotional closeness between children and parents is getting closer.

Maintain supporting boundaries

Limits can be more easily maintained if you teach teens to consider them protective rather than limiting. Limits can be negotiated and must apply in two ways.

For example, you can set boundaries such as doing homework before social media. Meanwhile, if teenagers don't want you to upload photos or stories about them without their consent, you can comply with them to show respect for their boundaries.

Collaborating, not controlling

Childhood is a time when children form separate identities from you. If you keep trying to control it, it's possible they will rebel rather than listen.

For example, when they refuse to direct you to start their school project. Instead, asking about their project plans and how you can support it can motivate them to get started.

Become a model

Admitting mistakes when you make mistakes is important. It's not always the child who has to apologize when making mistakes. Lower your ego as a parent. It's important to remember, it's important to take steps to correct your mistakes rather than apologize without changing.

Be a good listener

By becoming a good listener, children can freely convey their questions or anxiety to parents. So as parents, try listening to children and give reactions without having to judge children first.

Agree on important rules

Agreeing on important rules When children are teenagers, parents can no longer arrange them easily. For this reason, parents and children need to make various agreements. For example, children are not allowed to travel until more than 21.00 or 09.00 pm.

Provide information in socializing

At the age of teenagers, they will see many things around them. Provide appropriate information, such as education about sex, the dangers of smoking, drugs, alcohol and others. Do not let teenagers actually find out from untrusted sources and actually have a bad impact.

Convey how to manage stress

As parents, they are obliged to listen to complaints without judging their children. Entertain him, then invite him to find a solution or vent his emotions with positive activities.


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