9 Signs Of A Healthy Relationship, Are You And Your Partner Doing This?

Illustration of signs of a healthy couple relationship (Unsplash/Bruce Mars)

JAKARTA – A healthy relationship does not mean without differences or always agreeing with all opinions and decisions of partners. Precisely because they have a sufficient level of maturity, fights and debates are healthy.

Although the definition of maturity is quite broad, it is within the limits of psychological maturity. Here, for reflection, is a list of 9 signs of a healthy relationship.

1. Dealing with differences

How to deal with differences for adults would be wiser. Differences in opinion between you and your partner can be overcome and dealt with clearly. That way the cross-argument runs healthy and not tiring.

2. Arguments produce something productive

Arguing that makes the relationship more harmonious is by exchanging productive arguments. It means not bringing each other down but supporting and respecting each other.

3. Trust each other

One thing that reduces the intensity of a fight is mutual trust. Quarrels for being late to return home, taking too long to reply to electronic messages, and forgetting to give gifts are not the trigger for relationship rifts.

4. Each other's goals go smoothly

Doesn't everyone have a purpose in life? Or aspirations to the career path you want to achieve. If you and your partner have a mature relationship, then each of them can smile brightly when pursuing their dreams.

5. No regrets

Even if your partner isn't a romantic partner, you might think, there are other things you're grateful for when you're with them.

6. Communication goes well

You and your partner who have a harmonious relationship can talk about any topic without worrying about causing problems. Even communicate future plans and ideas without fear of being questioned or judged.

7. Mutual respect

Most visible in couples who are in mature relationships is mutual respect. Accept each other's values and respect each other's feelings.

8. Missing each other

Do you or your partner miss each other when you don't see each other for hours? Even though you enjoy alone time, you can't wait to see your partner again.

9. Really love each other

This last sign is actually the most difficult to explain. Because the meaning of love for each partner will be different. But true love can be felt when you and your partner are bound in a healthy relationship.

How many points do you and your partner have? If you got it all, then perfect.