Ahead Of Death, These Are 3 Things Many People Want The Most

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JAKARTA - Towards the end of life, many people start to think about things that have been neglected so far. It's no longer about grand achievements or material desires, but simple things that actually have the deepest meaning

This was revealed by Dr. Kathryn Mannix, a palliative care specialist who has been accompanying patients for decades in the last days of their lives.

In a video shared by Dr. Alex George, a former Love Island participant who is now actively discussing mental health, Dr. Mannix explains the three main things that patients want the most or think about before death.

The findings are not only touching, but also a reminder for all of us about what is really important in life. Here are 3 things patients want the most before death, as reported by the Express.co.uk page.

1. Want To Improve Damaged Relationships

According to Dr. Mannix, many patients want to improve relationships that were tenuous, both with family, friends, and partners. In the last moments, apologies are very meaningful.

When someone realizes their life is coming to an end, they no longer think about big things that have not been achieved. They think more about relationships that need to be improved," said Dr. Mannix.

2. Want to say thank you

The second thing that often appears is the desire to express gratitude. Patients want to thank the people who have been present and give meaning to their lives.

"They want to express their gratitude for the love, support, and togetherness they have felt during their life," he added.

3. Want to Say 'I Love You'

Among all things, the expression of love is the most frequently heard in hospital care rooms. Dr. Mannix says love is the last word most people say before they leave.

If we listen to the last message the victims in the twin tower, everyone talks about love. I love you. Don't forget me.' The same goes for what we hear from the patient, namely 'thank you, sorry, I thank you, and I love you',' he explained.

Dr. Mannix also highlighted how humans often find it difficult to talk about death and it is even more difficult to express love.

"We are not used to words about death, but it turns out we are much more awkward to say the word 'love'," he said.

In closing, Dr. Alex George gave a simple but meaningful message.

'Relation to the people you love and say that you love them. Don't wait until it's too late.' he said.

The message from these two doctors serves as a reminder that in the end, life is not about how much it has, but about who we love and how we love them.