The Reason Why You Care And Care When You Make Love, This Is Clearly An Expert

Illustration ofteting and die while making love according to expert explanation (Freepic)

YOGYAKARTA Many people associate storytelling, screaming, and urge as pain. But in sexual experience, these voices often space and leave the room if they are not controlled. Make no mistake, these sexual voices can show that couples who make love respond to each other and are not indifferent. So, what exactly drives this voice unconsciously out of the concavity? Professor Aaron Ben-Ze ev, a researcher who specializes in studying human emotions explains the reason.

Quoting Ben-Zeev's explanation reported by Psychology Today, Sunday, June 11, a woman admitted that when she had feelings within herself, she made a commotion to express these feelings. Another woman admitted to holding back the tension, rhythm, and noise when making love to her partner out of shame.

According to the Oxford English Dictionary, your voice is a low and long voice that a person makes to express physical, mental, and sexual suffering. When screaming, it's because of injury, fear, or enthusiasm. This definition is in line with the situation when a couple makes love, that my partner expresses positive sexual pleasure while screaming, I'm a woman, is expelled during abusive and painful sex.

In The book The Arc of Love, Ben-Ze ev emphasizes that emotions in general and love are ambivalent. That is, even emotions that are negative and that are contrary to love can come at the same time. Such ambivalence is a common thing because of partial emotions.

Partial, meaning focus on targets that are narrow or very few people and emotional expressing personal perspectives and interests. So every partial expression does not have a single perspective that expresses the main emotional perspective. Ben-Ze ev gave an example, a widow who attends her daughter's wedding, feels joy and sadness because her late husband is not present. Likewise, sexual experience can involve pleasure and suffering expressed in tantalizing.

Ben-Ze ev describes the makeup sex situation as an example in the transfer of arousal. How not, which was initially an unpleasant situation and created a dividing gap, with makeup sex couples can rebuild ties in a very real way. In a state of high arousal related to an argument, it is transferred to a state of high arousal during makeup sex. Another way to increase sexual arousal is to tease, involve gentle and funny arguments.

By making sounds like fire speech or urge, the couple shows ties. This means much better than silence. Ben-Ze ev quoted Brewer and Hendrie as explaining that women make sounds such as lull or susceptibility when they are bored, tired, or uncomfortable during sex. There are also those who make these voices so that the male partner is aroused and reaches a faster climax. But other findings, women make the most frequent noise during foreplay and before or at the same time as men's ejaculation.

In closing, Ben-Ze'ev said, balance is very important here. Because it can't tell the difference between ORIGINal and manipulativeity, what is certain is that everything has a positive effect for at least one person. In deep love, the action does speak louder than words and is "done well" much better than "said well". Vocational is indeed beneficial for making love, but that doesn't mean the more noise it guarantees satisfaction.