Turns Out, These Are 5 Reasons Men Love Spanking Their Partners When Making Love

Illustration of a couple making love (Pexels/Shvets Anna)

JAKARTA – Every activity that is included as a 'spice' in making love needs to be approved or based on the consent of each partner. Including spanking or hitting activities. At first glance, it looks like a 'violent' action but there is another side to hitting certain body parts.

Because the difference between violence and sexual pleasure is the presence of consent, then you need to know that the reason for spanking when making love is not done carelessly. In general, spanking is done on parts of the body that have a lot of fat deposits so as not to cause pain. For example on the buttocks, hips, and upper thighs.

Furthermore, here are the reasons men like to do spanking when making love.

1. To attract the attention of his partner

When making love, the connection frequency is not always connected. It's easy to get caught up in one's own pleasures, reported by Your Tango, Monday, October 4. Because making love is an ensemble pleasure, men like to spanking to draw their partner's attention to the pleasures of the two of them.

2. Affirming dominance

This needs to be understood carefully. Dominance in sex needs to be mutually agreed. In certain styles, for example, using dominant and submissive roleplay, it is also necessary to agree and make a scenario with your partner.

In sex, men should not use spanking to assert their power or power over a woman during sex. However, if an agreement has been established and has a healthy relationship pattern for everyone, then make special rules so as not to 'get lost' in painful sexual activities.

3. Hitting to test the limits

If spanking is mutually agreed upon or each has the same preferences regarding this activity, then it can be done. When spanking, make it a habit to pay attention to the response of your partner. If your partner nods and smiles, it means they agree. But if your partner doesn't like it, skip the spanking activities and other style explorations to achieve sexual pleasure with your partner.

4. Fishing good sound

In addition to the sound of sighs that can maintain the rhythm of making love, the sound of a sound when a passionate blow lands on the buttocks can also act as a good percussion accompaniment for making love.

5. Reduces awkwardness

When a man spanking his partner, it could be because it reduces the feeling of awkwardness. Sometimes, hands need to do activities to stay active to reach the fun part.