Maintaining Ethics When Meeting Idols, Kagum Expressions But Still Respecting Personal Limits

Illustration - A number of fans took selfies with actress Citra Kirana (right) and actor Rezky Aditya (right) before the premiere of the film Miracle Women's Tears at the TGV Cinema, Suria KLC, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, Wednesday (11/6/2025). (ANTARA)

JAKARTA - Meeting with an admired figure is certainly a valuable moment for many people. Joy and enthusiasm are often unbearable, especially when these idols rarely appear in public spaces.

However, it's important to remember that admiration should not rule out empathy. Fans need to be aware of the interaction, no matter how small, must be done with full awareness of the idol's personal boundaries.

Psychologist Totaling Indira Andani, M.Psi., who graduated from the University of Indonesia, emphasized that every individual, including a public figure, has a private space that needs respect.

"The personal top is a protective line for someone's comfort and sense of security," said ANTARA.

According totipel, expressing joy when meeting idols is humane. However, that expression needs to be controlled so as not to cause discomfort for the idol.

One of the things that must be considered is physical contact, such as hugging or touching, which is not always acceptable to everyone.

Although the intention may be just a form of spontaneity or affection,tipel explained that not everyone feels comfortable with touch without permission, especially for public figures who often interact with many people in a short time.

"For them, touch without consent can be emotionalally disturbing," he said.

He also highlighted the importance of understanding the concept of consent or consent, especially in interactions involving physical touch. Without direct approval, the action can be categorized as a violation of personal boundaries, no matter how much admiration the fan is.

The ideal interaction situation, continuedtip, should occur in a safe, comfortable condition, and not suddenly or be carried out in public spaces that are prone to abuse. For example, when you want to take a photo together, it would be much more polite if you first ask for permission before touching or hugging the idol.

"Expression of appreciation doesn't always have to be in the form of hugs. Warm smiles, wave of hands, or sincere words are often much more memorable and keep privacy," he added.

This statement emerged in response to the incident that happened to singer Nadin Amizah when appearing at the Senggol Market event, Bekasi, recently.

After the show, Nadin expressed his disappointment through social media because there were spectators who touched his body without permission. He emphasized that such behavior does not reflect the attitude of true fans.