YOGYAKARTA There are many kinds of mindsets, growing mindsets that best support a person's welfare. That means, the benchmark is not only success, but a growing mindset is also the basis for a person to work hard and be dedicated. With a growing mindset, one improves by continuing to learn new skills.
A growing mindset also encourages one to enjoy new experiences and challenges. Unlike a fixed mindset, which encourages one to avoid completing the difficult part of the task. For people who have a growing mindset, difficulties are considered challenges and faced with dedication. Even mistakes are considered a lesson and open to criticism to be better. How to develop a growing mindset, author and consultant Tchiki Davis, Ph.D., provides the following tips.
Everyone has shortcomings, but loves oneself including recognizing and accepting self-imperfection is good. By knowing the shortcomings, we can recognize strength. That way, we can believe in facing challenges as opportunities to grow and gain new adventures. In the face of new adventures, fear is an acceptable feeling. But still facing it and getting new capabilities will be exciting.
The approval of others can often prevent developing a mindset. Instead of seeking the approval of others, it is better to develop your own acceptance and approval. That way you will be more confident. It also marks that you also have to show honesty. Because that way, it will respect yourself and be truly authentic.
Goalless travel may be lost course. So it is important to determine what is covered as a goal. To develop this third growing mindset, you need to seek clarity on the goals you want to achieve. Then, don't stop until what you are after is obtained.
Criticism from others often makes us discouraged and give up on the way. Please note, the purpose of criticism is to make things better. Davis's advice, reported by Psychology Today, Monday, December 16, opens up with other people's advice to make it easier to develop a growing mindset.
In every process of achieving the goal, we will find many things. Starting from learning new skills, connecting with new people, to the challenges that must be faced. The most important thing is to remember, respect the process rather than the ultimate goal.
Mistakes are not for comparison, but space for learning. If other people have failed to achieve one thing, we can learn from the person's mistakes so as not to repeat the same mistake. So, there's no need to be afraid just need the courage to try new things.
When you have goals and in the process feel that you have not mastered certain skills, that's okay. The opportunity to learn new skills is wide open. You just need to continue to carry out the process, training and time will show improvement and self-development.
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Taking yourself too seriously, it's worth trying. That way we can absorb the knowledge of the people around us. Making mistakes and asking a lot of questions mark we're training to develop better.
In developing a growing mindset, it is important to be realistic. Once the goals and coverage are clear, learning new skills takes time. So avoid pressing yourself by moving fast but yourself will be depressed and stressed. So it's better to keep going no matter how long it takes. That is, consistency, dedication, and hard work will show the progress achieved.
As explained above, having a growing mindset considers challenges as an opportunity to learn, including learning new skills. Which every action taken takes planning and time to realize. Davis advises, develop resilience along the adventure to achieve goals. Play challenges and survive when facing setbacks.
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