4 Reasons Why Couple Love Is Always Lacking

Illustration of the reasons why love a partner is always lacking (Freepic)

YOGYAKARTA Satisfiability in relationships is obtained because of the underlying love. But when you feel that your partner's love is never enough, you will never feel satisfied and even feel hopeless, rejected, or even not good enough. The reason why your partner's love always feels lacking, first is because we don't love ourselves enough. Next, here's the full explanation.

The past examines a person's conceptualism and feelings. Including when your partner's love is lacking, it can be influenced by the past. According to research from the University of Central Florida, neglect experienced in the past can make a person harbor the belief that he is not good enough so he hopes to get enough from his partner. But longing for a partner's love to complete love for neglect in the past will make a person disappointed.

The romanticized love makes a person trapped in pursuing feelings of love so as to ignore the more real and essential things of that feeling. Finally, it makes us feel that our love for a partner is always lacking. Because we only pursue romantic things that bloom.

When you feel inappropriate to get love, you can think your partner doesn't love you. Like the research led by Dr. Sang Won Lee in 2018 reported by YourTango, showing that if someone is looking for validation to confirm feelings for themselves, he will never feel enough love from his partner.

As mentioned at the opening, loving yourself is important before loving your partner and receiving a balanced reply. Because without loving yourself, we will never be able to meet your own needs. Please note, learning to accept love for yourself will make you feel good enough for someone who is also good enough for you.

That's the reason why your partner's love feels lacking. To overcome this, it is important to reflect on yourself and ask yourself and your partner. Most importantly, accepting yourself just opens and accepts love from your partner.