YOGYAKARTA Disputes or conflicts with others need to be resolved effectively. It is also important not to judge and be open to collaboration from each party. In addition, it is also important to communicate openly and remain respectful to each other.

Conflict needs to be managed constructively. The goal is that both parties in conflict trust each other. Collaborating in resolving conflicts also creates a sense of unity and mutual respect in relationships. More clearly, here are how to deal with conflicts with others, especially those closest to them, based on firm communication, understanding boundaries, and collaboration.

It is important for both parties to conflict taking the time to reveal what each party really needs. The more knowledge that causes the problem, the easier it will be to solve it.

Solving the conflict will be difficult if both parties do not set common goals. Because the common goal is the initial point of finding creative solutions. That means, open up to each other and dig up each other's curiosity to help find common ground during the conflict resolution process.

Resolution of creative conflicts requires all parties to feel safe enough. Not only to share knowledge or discuss each other openly. But dig up ideas without emotional escalation.

As mentioned above, recognizing boundaries is important. Including recognizing each other's roles, which have responsibilities according to their roles. It is also important that every party in conflict recognizes the role and is responsible for finding conflict resolutions.

Whether it's a conflict with your partner, friends, friends, family, or work team, empathy is important to put in the right position. Show that you understand their perspective very well. Avoid judging and growing affection so that both feel safe and collaboration increases.

Before deciding resolution or resolution, it is important for everyone who is in conflict to discuss settlement options. It is important to understand that solutions must benefit all parties. Also, no one needs to give in to one party's victory. So really explore the solution to find a fair resolution for both of them.

Launching Psychology Today, Friday, August 30, conflicts and disputes are inevitable. It is also important to realize that resolving conflicts effectively contributes to personal growth, emotional well-being, and healthy relationships.


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