Couples Often Avoid And Save Many Secrets, Signs Of Dissatisfaction In Relationships

Illustration of the sign of an unsatisfied partner in a relationship (Freepic)

YOGYAKARTA A sign of danger in a couple relationship, can not be clearly seen. For example, about dissatisfaction in relationships that are often not communicated and there is no attempt to find a middle ground so that the relationship is harmonious again.

Relationships can be complicated because one of the partners feels dissatisfaction with the relationship. Well, this is why it is important to be aware of signs of dissatisfaction in relationships, including those described by the professors of Belit Brogaard, DMSci., Ph.D. reported by Psychology Today, Friday, July 5.

Communication is an important key to couples' relationships. Without communication, a partner will not live in harmony. If communication decreases or the quality of communication indicates that a partner is attractive emotionally, it is a sign of dissatisfaction in the relationship.

Couples may show less initiative in planning joint activities, making decisions, or contributing to growth in relationships. They may seem passive and indifferent so as to let their partner take on a big responsibility.

Emotional distance manifests as a feeling of carelessness in interacting with their partners. They may seem away, quieter, and reluctant to share thoughts and feelings and even knit experiences together.

A harmonious couple is not non-fight or different perceptions. But they can be open to each other and respect and at the same time pay attention. But escalating conflicts and tensions in relationships may indicate unresolved problems. Couples who feel dissatisfied in relationships may be more argumentative, defensive, or critical, causing disputes to heat up.

Indeed, not everything must be told to your partner, but if your partner shows closed behavior. Like being dishonest about the existence, activity, or interacting with anyone. They may keep secrets so that they cause suspicion and distrust.

Signs of an unsatisfied partner in a relationship, this is the most unpleasant. He will usually seek validation, attention, or emotional support from sources outside of relationships. He may rely on other people to get certainty or satisfaction instead of being with his partner.

That's a sign of an dissatisfied partner in a relationship. In addition to the above signs, Brogaard also noted that a couple may avoid making priorities and common goals.