YOGYAKARTA - How do you feel if your partner is interested in other people? Even though it's only limited to interest and doesn't have an affair or make it secondaries, this can hurt feelings. In a relationship, there are often micro-cheatings made by partners.

Micro cheating is a small form of infidelity in a relationship. Small activities by partners often make you jealous and have the potential to damage relationships. One of them is a trivial habit when your partner likes posts of the opposite sex.

Although the actions taken are trivial, if left unchecked it can damage the relationship between love and household. The definition of the environment is different for each couple. However, micro cheating needs to be watched out for because it opens up opportunities to have an affair.

When your partner does micro-cheating, it indicates interest in other people. To avoid unhealthy relationships, you should recognize micro-cheating signs that your partner may be doing.

Although interest in someone is a human nature or can just appear, as a partner must control yourself. When a person has a romantic relationship, he must be committed to maintaining feelings and trust in his partner.

Small micro-cheating actions can reduce your partner's trust and lead to disputes in the relationship. Micro cheating is not only done in direct actions, but also through social media.

In order not to get caught up in toxic and inner self-injury relationships, here are the signs of microcheating that you need to recognize:

Social media does make it easier for someone to communicate with other people. Through social media, cheating opportunities may also occur. Often monitor other people's social media accounts, especially the opposite sex, including micro cheating.

If your partner often stalks women's or other men's social media, then you have to be vigilant. Not a few couples often like or comment on the posts of the opposite sex. Although there is no prohibition, this action can make couples jealous and feared to interfere with relationships.

Some people are still in a relationship with their ex-girlfriend after breaking up. Actually, it doesn't matter if communication is done because it is important and not excessive. However, if your partner often sends prank messages or asks about the news, then it should be suspected.

Still in touch with ex-girlfriends, including micro cheating. This habit needs to be watched out for because it opens up opportunities for them to make a comeback. It could be that he still hasn't moved on or is still hoping to return to his ex's arms.

Not only ex-girlfriends, but often chats with other people are also micro-cheating. Especially if the message contains attention or flirty. This trivial habit is also dangerous for relationships because it opens up opportunities to have an affair.

Another micro-cheating case that is also often encountered is a partner who claims to be single. When your partner admits that he is single when asked by other people, then don't take it lightly. Couples who claim to be single mean they don't respect you and open up opportunities for others to get close.

Another micro-cheating action that has the potential to damage relationships is to vent with other people. When a partner chooses to vent with other people, it's a sign that he is uncomfortable with you. He prefers to share stories with others which are considered more attractive to him.

This habit is a toxic relationship that you cannot understand. From the frequentness of venting or constantly contacting other people, then feelings will develop between the two.

Your partner may often do activities with other people, either because of work or other things. But you have to be careful if your partner often spends a lot of time with the opposite sex.

Even though you know that other people are friends, this habit includes micro cheating. When your partner often chats, eats together, or goes to play with the opposite sex, then he may be interested in that person.

Those are some micro-cheating signs that you need to recognize to avoid toxic relationships. The above habits do seem trivial, but have the potential to damage your relationship with your partner.

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