5 Reasons That Make Us Suitable To Someone From The Beginning

Illustration of the reasons we fit in with someone from the start (Freepic)

YOGYAKARTA Matching with friends, partners, even co-workers, is not without reason. Sometimes when you first get to know each other, it feels familiar. This chemical impetus may be the result of a unique factor for everyone who meets. Like in friendship or romance falling in love at first sight, you and others may have more in common. Licensed coordinating and professor at Northern Illinois University, totaling Degges-White, Ph.D, symbolizes communication with people who fit us like circles'.

Animals that have a 'light' communicate through lighting. We must connect with other people, as well as with communication even though it is accompanied by instant interest that causes us to match when chatting. According to Degges-White reported by Psychology Today, Thursday, December 7, there are five reasons why we match someone even when we meet.

Vulnerability is a factor that affects the match. You may give up on occupying a position 'not knowing', 'not an expert', or 'temporary visitor'. This vulnerability allows you to connect in communicating and matching with strangers.

Matches can be because you are in the same space. For example, you and your friends have the same hobby so that it is open to building relationships with other friends with similar hobbies. That way, you feel comfortable and suitable to be in the friendship environment.

It may not be easy to explain about the same waves' in a relationship. But when you have a different perspective with the same vision, it will certainly be established in the same wave of challenges. So that way, you and your relationship can maintain each other's good relations and connect with each other.

You may have the same common background, such as Surabaya residents who live in Bandung. This similarity can be a basis for interconnecting with each other. Or other general backgrounds, such as liking yoga or pursuing a cycling hobby.

The environment that you and other people think is suitable for has challenges, space, and joint difficulties to solve. For example, you live in a residential area where you need to build a comfortable environment for a place to live. That way, small events to build harmony will strengthen each other's fitness.

When the five factors and reasons above come together, the fire has turned on. This match triggers a strong sense of interconnection from both parties or more.