7 Situations That Often Make You Lonely

Illustration of situations that often make you lonely (Freepik/yaalya)

YOGYAKARTA "Loneness is often present to disturb happiness. Sometimes, without any problems, even in crowds, you can feel alone. Loneliness, can be draining, annoying, and annoying. Even on the positive side, the desired loneliness can reconcile, grow the creative side, and also recover the wound. According to Rubin, author of The Happiness Project and Better than Before, register situations that usually make you lonely lurking. Here are situations you may need to recognize to anticipate the appearance of that annoying quiet feeling.

When someone moves from one city to a new city or just starts a new job, it might feel lonely. This feeling of loneliness, because the bonds with the people around us are still limited. We also still read the situation around so that loneliness feels tiring.

Loneliness can be experienced in the midst of the closest people. But when people closest to you have different perspectives, loneliness may make you isolated. For example, when people around you choose to travel to crowded places, while you choose a place that is intimate and warm. This difference, maybe can happen to everyone and is lonely, according to Rubin, is part of the human condition that must be accepted.

Even if you have close friends and family, you can feel lonely because you don't have an intimate bond with your partner. Or maybe you have a partner, but don't feel a deep relationship with your partner.

Many people are interested in raising their favorite animals. If this describes you, then you are supported by a relationship that cannot be replaced by a relationship between humans. Launching Psychology Today, Friday, October 27, there are people who feel lost and lonely when their favorite cat, for example, disappears or dies.

Sometimes you are surrounded by friendly people, but they don't want to be friends. Maybe these friendly people are busy with their own lives, or they already have lots of friends. So even if you want a deeper relationship, the people around you give you a distance, it can make you lonely.

Doubts may arise in your friendship. Especially if you find a pleasant attitude but don't match the facts. This includes when you make friends with other people but don't trust them completely. Important to understand, an important element in friendship is the ability to tell each other and trust each other. If this aspect is lost, you may feel lonely even if you spend a lot of time together for fun.

Maybe not many people can make you comfortable and calm. When you are in a social circle, such as colleagues, neighbors, or roadmates, but missing people who give you peace can trigger a sense of silence.

That's a list of situations that often cause sense of silence. Rubin advice, everyone needs to realize why it's quiet growing. By knowing the cause, you can overcome it. For example, by building trust in trusted people and creating projects together.