Bad Impact If Too Dependent On Your Partner

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JAKARTA - When having an affair, sometimes women become too dependent on their partners. Whether it's from an emotional or material side, the existence of a partner around seems to be mandatory.

For example, when traveling, you have to be accompanied by your partner, want your partner to buy and fulfill your needs, to ask your partner to make decisions about whatever you want to do.

It is reasonable if done occasionally. But, when you let your partner take over your life because of this dependent attitude, it could be that the impact will be less good for your own life.

Then, what are the possible impacts in the future if you are too dependent on your partner?

Lack of confidence

Being too dependent on your partner can make your self-esteem disappear on its own. Because, you are used to asking your partner's opinion to decide something. In fact, many things in life require a decision from yourself.

When you are too dependent, you will be confused about making decisions because you are used to being decided by your partner. It's good to have a partner because there is a place to tell stories, complain, and share opinions. Even so, still you should be the one who decides and is responsible for everything that happens in your life.

Fear of separating

Having a dependency on your partner can make you afraid to separate. Because you know that you can't do without it. If your partner is sincere and doesn't mind, then thank goodness. That means you are lucky. But, if he feels tired of your habits and ends up choosing to walk away?

Of course, you will be very confused and confused because you lose an important person in your life. You are also prone to feeling sad because there is no partner. If you have this, you can become stressed to feel depressed because you are confused about having to organize your own life without a partner.

Lazy

Too dependent on your partner can make you lazy. The reason is, so far you have relied too much on the help of your partner in living life. Every time you travel, you always ask for a shuttle. Every time there is work, you ask him to solve it, until there is a partner's problem so a place to ask for a solution.

When stacked up, these habits can actually make you lazy and lose the ability to solve problems on your own. In fact, independence is an important character needed to survive.

If you still need help, at least try to find other people who can really help you and that person is not always a partner.