Don't Be Scolded, Here Are 6 How To Overcome The Malays Of Learning In Children

Illustration of how to overcome lazy learning (iStockphoto/Aleksandar Nakic)

YOGYAKARTA For children, lack of motivation makes them lazy to learn. So learning is not only experienced by children but also for adults. A researcher and psychologist, Carol Dwek applies certain practices that can help laziness become more motivated.

If you are struggling to overcome your laziness in learning with your child, try the following steps.

Everyone likes to do things that they find interesting. Children too, they will be more diligent when doing the activities they like. Recommendations, observe your children to find out where they interest is. Show their interest and find ways to connect their interests with other skills they want to develop.

For example, they are lazy to learn but like to read comics. That is, you can support their interest in reading to gain new knowledge.

Success is desired by everyone, including by someone who often fails. If your child experiences repeated failures, it can lead to despair and frustration. The bad effect can cause anxiety and anger. To overcome this and make him not slumped in laziness, try to make sure they have enough confidence.

To do this, accompany the children to find out what they expect. If they are not motivated and often struggle with homework, make it a habit to discuss their hopes in the future so that they get enough fuel to advance to success.

A child, for example, they develop video games after watching them. You can motivate your child by exposing other people's achievements in the fields they are interested in. However, don't compare your children to others. Don't even expect them to reach the same goal as others.

Launching Parent Map, Tuesday, October 11, the motivational sentence rarely works. Even if you have good intentions, talking to children about the importance of efforts will not make them diligent. Instead of focusing on past performance, focus on future performance. Better, encourage them to assess their own performance.

Children's mindset is different from that of adults. They don't know why they have to learn. Even even though they tell them that learning is important, it means, parents need to be creative in packing methods or how to learn exciting things. For example, learn history by playing Lego, or learn math by drawing.

Each child has their own strength, those who are strong in learning math are not necessarily flexible in grammar. This shows an approach based on the power of children will make them prefer to learn the field of study they enjoy.

In addition to the six ways to overcome the sense of learning lessons in children, such as the explanation above, parents also need to show what cannot be negotiated.