YOGYAKARTA For young couples who just have babies, of course the happy atmosphere covers them. However, have your husband ever been jealous of your own child? This jealousy can actually make positive changes. But you need to be actively involved and deal with it wisely.

The presence of the baby, may affect the level of happiness. Can be very happy but require adjustments, including dividing attention, empathizing, to how to appreciate each other's roles in the household. Launching PsychCentral, Tuesday, October 4, experts say most married parents experience less happiness in marriage than before having a baby.

You and your husband may spend less time together than ever. Even new habits, such as reduced sleep, also affect interaction with your partner. This can trigger the presence of negative feelings.

When a baby sleeps with you, it means your partner has his own time. It may be difficult for him to adapt and need time and positive communication so that jealousy does not affect other aspects of the household.

Another thing, which affects the presence of a husband's jealousy in his own child, is the lack of communication. When you are tired and stressed, you may choose not to communicate much. Even your partner can feel discouraged because, perhaps, you feel useless because you have more time to care for and breastfeed your baby.

Lack of attention may also be a driver, the husband is jealous of his own child. He feels neglected once the baby is born and maybe many people around him are more likely to ask how the baby and his mother are.

In addition to the causes mentioned above, husbands feel jealous of their children because they miss the times before they become parents. They may experience drastic changes and need time to adapt. In fact, they need a healthy support system to open up to changes in the dynamics.

Things that should not be ignored, a person may reflect on a traumatic childhood so that it burns with jealousy. A person may never get enough love and support when he was a child. So that when her baby is born, the wife gives her full attention to the baby, and her husband 'Feels' love for her decreases.

The signs of a husband being jealous of children include silent treatment, being too competitive, assessing himself as negative, irritating, seeking validation, doubting yourself, and delaying responsibilities. So what should the wife do when her husband experiences this?

There are many factors that encourage the appearance of a husband's jealousy towards his own child. Most importantly, set your mood first. It is important to remain calm so that the foundation of a strong family. Then, talk to your husband and plan regular night dates or alone time.

The second way to deal with a husband is to be jealous of his own child, to involve the husband in the tasks of taking care of the baby. Tell about the steps, then observe his efforts to carry out his best role. Don't forget to appreciate the slightest of his efforts in being involved in taking care of the baby. For example feeding the baby, bathing, or reading out the introduction story.


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