Tips For Making Sex Call Videos Comfortably For LDR Couples

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JAKARTA - Having sex that remains optimal is difficult for married couples to get long distances or long distance relationships (LDR). This is where the role of video calls is needed.

By making sex video calls with your partner when LDR can help to keep venting your passion and keep your relationship intimate even though you are far away. Faraway sex can also make you and your partner more creative.

Long-distance sex can force you to become creative and break your routine," said sexologist Jess O'Reliance, PhD, quoted by Cosmopolitan, on Friday, October 24, 2025.

However, in conducting video calls for sex, there are several things that must be considered so that they feel comfortable and satisfying. One of them is about the rules.

You and your partner must discuss the basic rules and ensure that this has been mutually approved. Then arrange for scenes or poses to the layout of the cellphone so as not to interfere during the video call sex.

Set your phone so that your hands are free and your partner can see you perfectly, said sex educator Sarah Riccio.

Riccio provides tips for using cell phone support or tripod so that the phone does not fall easily. Room lighting must also be considered, so that it can highlight you well.

"This way, you don't have to worry about holding the phone and potentially dropping it," Riccio added.

Not only that, it is also recommended to use lubricants, props, or sex toys. This will help you and your partner feel more satisfied when making sex video calls.