Getting To Know Dolphin Parenting, A Parenting Pattern That Stimulates Emotional Relations And Joy
YOGYAKARTA Dolphin parenting or parenting patterns using a method called dolphins, his approach emphasizes emotional relationships, joy and balance. According to certified parenting coach Sarah Anita, M.Ed., this dolphin care pattern is inspired by the social properties of dolphins that prioritize exploration while maintaining appropriate restrictions.
Dolphin parenting was first created by Harvard psychiatrist and scientist, Shimi Kang, who is a variation of authoritarian parenting style. Kang wrote, like the dolphin's body, parents need to be firm but flexible. The dolphin's parents also have rules and expectations but also respect creativity and independence. Here are six characteristics of parenting parenting parenting style reported by Parents, Sunday, October 20.
Emotional relationships become an approach in the parenting pattern of dolphins. This describes the dolphin's parents who are in line with their children's feelings and needs. It also sets an example and encourages emotional expressions, said Anita.
The dolphin's parents enter the game and emphasize pleasure as a family value. Because the joy makes the children develop their skills freely and without pressure.
Not a parenting pattern that is so protective that it does not support children to take risks. Dolphin parenting actually encourages discovery and challenges while offering support during setbacks and disappointments, Anita said.
Characteristics of further parenting dolphin, parents encourage and open opportunities for children's curiosity in exploring. That way children find inspiration and constantly explore activities and talents that attract their interests.
Parents who implement a dolphin parenting pattern set boundaries that foster resilience as well as adaptability over over rigidity and excessive rules.
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Furthermore, the characteristics of parents who use a dolphin parenting pattern encourage a balanced lifestyle. Including balance in physical activity, social interaction, and conscious activity such as meditation, said Elvis Rosales, LCSW, clinical director at Align Recovery Centers.
In addition to recognizing the characteristics of dulphin parenting, it is also necessary to know what the benefits are. According to research, dolphin parenting is highly correlated with a higher level of living satisfaction. Plus, because flexible rules to encourage children's curiosity, it also creates a sense of responsibility and confidence as well as the ability of children to regulate their emotions in achieving their goals.
" Dolphin-style endorsements can have many positive impacts on children, including improving social skills, improving welfare, and increasing self-confidence," said Anita.
Interested in practicing parenting patterns that use a balanced approach between gender, emotional relationships, and encourage the child's creativity and responsibility?