Solid Paired Relations, Able To Overcome These 4 Challenges

Illustration of the challenge of a pair relationship (Freepik/tirachardz)

YOGYAKARTA Every couple relationship has their own trials. It doesn't mean giving up, a solid partner can go through challenges. But for couples who are not ready to face challenges, choosing a different path for each person. Is your relationship solid in passing the challenges of the same couple?

The relationship between two people is established because they both negotiate with differences. How not, everyone has different characters. For example, you like adventure and try new things while your partner is calm and quiet. You and your partner may have many differences, but it is important to unite your vision even though you have different characters. It's also important to occasionally get out of your comfort zone and see the good side of the point of view of others.

After the flowering moments in the first year of marriage, hormones may slip due to sexual routines that are not so exciting. Launching YourTango, Friday, June 9, job demands, small fights, and other problems can have a bad impact on intimacy unless you and your partner can bypass it openly.

Good sex requires openness and is able to share what feels good, what generates passion, what makes you unexcited, and what moments really satisfy you. Good sex begins with taking the risk of speaking," explained doctor Sue Johnson of the International Center for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy.

Even in healthy and stable relationships, emotional relationships can be separated. The most important thing is how to deal with and track the reasons why emotional distances occur. Obviously Johnson, there are three events to deal with feelings of distance and isolation. First, every couple need to communicate assertively by revealing the needs directly and responding to each other. Second, it is necessary to be open and not close, and finally, to make sure each other feels safe to communicate with each other.

Couples in long-term relationships know very well which conditions doubt surround. Maybe when you see another partner who looks happier. But it's important to know, everyone takes their own tests. Therefore, a solid partner can get through doubt and more confidence in their partner.

Those are the four challenges that are commonly faced in a couple relationship. If you and your partner are able to get through it, it means you have built a solid pair relationship.