Besides Gentle Attitude, These are 7 Signs a Man is Being Protective of His Partner

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JAKARTA - Which woman is not happy to have a partner who likes to protect her? No matter how strong a woman is, she still needs someone who can make her feel safe, valued and protected. If you are looking for a partner or already have one but are confused about whether his behavior is protective or not. Reported by VOI from the Inspiring Tips page, Tuesday, February 14, here are 8 signs men are being protective of their partners.

He Wants To Know About Your Friends

If a guy likes asking questions about your friends, classmates, or co-workers, you can tell he's investigating something. For example, he may want to know if you are surrounded by people who can make you feel safe. Plus, don't be surprised if he wants to meet them too.

Like Interrupting When Someone Talks Badly at You

If this guy doesn't like you being insulted by others, he's definitely protecting you. One sign is to immediately interrupt anyone who is speaking to you in a sarcastic or mocking tone. Even if you take it as a joke, he can't stand it when someone disrespects you.

Don't like you wearing sexy clothes

If this person protests every time he sees you wearing shorts or a crop top, this is surely his way of protecting you. He knows how the male brain works, so he wants to keep you away from those stares. He doesn't want you to be belittled by being the object of a man's fantasy.

Asking You Not to Be Very Friendly to Men

Does he get annoyed every time he sees you hanging out with some guy friends? Despite the possibility of jealousy, he may want you to be careful too. He doesn't like you being taken advantage of by guys who are after cute, innocent girls. Plus, he might ask you not to touch guys or let them touch you.

Be Gentle

What about the way he treats you? Is he always gentle? Even when angry, does he avoid using a high-pitched tone or using derogatory words? Being gentle is one way he protects you from himself.

Choose to Stay Away when You're Emotional

When your partner is at the peak of his anger, he chooses to stay away rather than continue to argue with you. He's afraid to say something that might offend you. Even worse, he's afraid to run out of patience and end up hurting you physically.

Treating You with a Gentleman's Treatment

Overall, partner treats you like a princess. He is courteous whenever you are with him. Opens your car or house door for you, holds your umbrella for you when it's raining, and doesn't hesitate to carry your bag when you're out and about. On walks, he makes sure you are on the safe side beside him. Being a gentleman is his way of telling you that you feel safe with him.