40 Days After Vidi Aldiano's Departure, Sheila Dara's Condition Improves

Harry Kiss (Virgi/VOI)

JAKARTA - The loss of Vidi Aldiano certainly left a deep wound for his wife, Sheila Dara Aisha. In the midst of grief ahead of the 40th day of Vidi's departure, Harry Kiss as a father-in-law continues to provide full support and extraordinary love for Sheila.

"Sheila, I haven't seen her since yesterday. I only met my wife. It's ladies night, just a gathering of women. (His condition) Yes, it's getting better," said Harry Kiss when he was met at the Tanah Kusir TPU, Tuesday, April 14.

Harry understands very well how heavy the burden Sheila is carrying now. Losing a partner at a very young age and a relatively new marriage age is not an easy thing to get through.

"But yes, if I see it, today a young husband is left behind, he just got married, it's not an easy matter. So we just pray for Sheila to be more brave," continued Harry.

Even though Vidi is gone, Harry Kiss' love for his daughter-in-law will never change. He emphasized that for their family, Sheila is an inseparable part forever.

"Of course it (the family will be loyal to accompany). Sheila is my best daughter-in-law. If Sheila says Vidi is her husband forever, for me Sheila is my daughter-in-law forever," said Harry.

The sincerity of the Harry Kiss family can also be seen from how they keep Vidi's last resting place comfortable. Harry said that many friends were also paying attention to the grave of his son, including senior actor Rano Karno.

"This is also you if you look here at this tomb, do you know these pots? This is what nanam Bang Rano Karno. Because here it is very hot, right? Well, this is given trees. There are more than 20 of them. One, two, three, these trees are called Rano Karno trees," said Harry.

Harry Kiss' family is known to be very open and warm to anyone who loves Vidi. He even has a special staff at the tomb who always reports on the development and arrival of guests every day.

"Every morning, this reporter, Mr. Haji Ebong, reports 'Sir, someone is coming'. So, this morning, at what time, 'Sir, this is waiting for the media'. The media was waiting for it to come, God," he said.

Regarding Vidi's presence in dreams, Harry admitted that he had not felt it himself. However, he felt comforted by hearing stories from Vidi's friends who felt visited by the deceased through dreams.

"I don't, Ibu Besbar only once. But his friends Vidi, if you look at the chat, in the comment, 'Om I was dreamed of Vidi three times'. But if he says Vidi says this message, ah, it's not Vidi, "said Harry.

For him, Vidi's actual presence in the dream is quite marked by a smile. Harry doesn't want to be caught up in the speculation of strange messages that people often associate with dreams of meeting people who have died.

"He said so. If the truth is that when we are approached, the most smiling Vidi, what, well that means it's true," concluded Harry Kiss.