JAKARTA - A warm, open, and full parenting pattern of involvement from parents is an important foundation in shaping children's behavior so as not to fall into deviant actions.
When parents build healthy relationships with their children from an early age through good communication, emotional attention, and clear boundaries, children tend to have better self-control and are not easily affected by negative environments, including risk groups.
This is in line with the explanation of psychologists from Gadjah Mada University (UGM), Novi Poespita Candra, S.Psi., M.Si., Ph.D., who reminded the importance of parents' vigilance about changes in children's behavior which could be the initial signal of involvement in criminal acts.
"One of the signs that need to be watched out for is when children start to move away from family interactions and find it difficult to build communication, especially with parents," said Novi as quoted by ANTARA.
According to him, when children begin to lose interest in positive activities and tend to spend time with groups that are prone to violations, the risk of engaging in crime is getting bigger.
This condition is also related to high levels of stress hormone (cortisol) which can interfere with the work of the brain that regulates logic and decision-making, namely the prefrontal vortex.
Furthermore, Novi explained that violent and impulsive behavior is often triggered by the activation of a brain part called amygdala, or often referred to as "role brain." When children are under emotional pressure, they are more easily responding with aggression or escape, rather than thinking clearly.
"In stressful situations, the child's brain responds reflexively. They can attack, be silent, or escape. This is because their rational brain parts do not work optimally," he explained.
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Real examples can be seen in cases of teenage brawls. Although children are aware of wrong brawls, their ability often cannot control emotional impulses that arise due to social pressure or unacceptable feelings.
As a precautionary measure, Novi recommends parents to encourage their children to be involved in physical activities regularly, such as sports or other positive social activities. This activity helps release stress while building confidence.
"Children need to be given a platform to channel their energy. Combining physical activities with dialogue with those closest to them so that their children feel heard and appreciated," he said.
Regular and open dialogues not only help relieve emotions, but also train children to use reasoning in solving problems. That way, children learn not to resolve conflicts with violence or follow group pressure.
"The role of parents is very large. Not only limiting, but also providing children with critical thinking skills and self-control," concluded Novi.
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