JAKARTA - One of the most important ways to help teenagers in their friendship is to build open communication with them. In addition, try to listen to what they say. Here are some things that need to be conveyed to teenagers when talking about friendship reported by Very Well Family, Monday, May 27.
Everyone is allowed to have many friends. Sometimes, friendship is established because of the same interests, activities, or closeness. At other times, social relationships develop by chance or between people who don't seem to have much in common but match for one reason.
Honesty and trust are important in all relationships, including the friendship of teenagers. Teach children about the importance of being honest with their friends. While giving advice to balance their needs for privacy.
Friends sometimes hurt each other, but they can always apologize to each other and forgive each other. Teach children to apologize to their friends if there is a misunderstanding or miscommunication. Tell your child that there are some friendships that are not worth saving, such as bullying.
It's important to know who the child chooses to be friends. Pay attention to whether the friend can be a good friend or not and whether teenagers like to spend time with them. If the answer is yes in both ways, it's likely that person is a good person to choose as a friend.
One of the skills that need to be possessed in fostering friendly relationships is discussing what is needed, expressing true feelings, being flexible, giving time and space in relationships, and caring for each other. Considering the feelings of others is also the most important thing.
Teach children to accompany friends during difficult times and be sincere. In addition, remind children to focus on friends who bring something positive into their lives and commit to being good friends.
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Most children's behavior is based on their parents' behavior. What parents usually do will usually be imitated by their children.
Actually, this is an advantage for parents to instill the value of friendship. The trick is to be a good friend to children, that way children will imitate what kind of friendship is.
In addition, let your child see you interact with other people in a positive way. For example, show how you warmly greet your friends or entertain your friends when you are sad.
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