Things That Should Not Be Used As Reasons For Marriage

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JAKARTA - Getting married is sacred, beautiful, and is related to commitment and responsibility until death does. Getting married is a tough thing, for that you can't just get to that point.

There are various processes that a couple must go through in order to both be sure to step into the aisle and live together forever.

However, sometimes the desire to marry is also not right. You must recognize that the following four things are not grounds for marriage. Anything?

Age factor

There is a 25 year old woman who wants to get married because she feels that she is the right age. In another place, women who are 35 years old feel they must get married because they are old. Even though there are no official rules regarding the age limit for marriage. If you want to get married because of your age, you will usually be more careless in choosing your life partner. Don't be sorry later because of this!

To be happy

You feel life is so miserable and sad, then think about getting married to be happy? Totally wrong! Being able to marry someone you care about makes you happy, but married life is diverse, it can be sad, happy, difficult, full of drama, it can also be happy.

If you really want to feel happiness, actually the answer is not getting married, but learning to recognize yourself, make peace with yourself, love yourself, be grateful for life, not compare yourself with other people, and the point is to create happiness itself.

Tired of working

Many women often joke that they want to get married because they are tired of working. She wants to relax at home every day, wait for her husband to come home from work, watch movies all day long, and relax but finances are still safe. If you've ever thought the same, maybe at that time just tired of working too much. After all, can you last long with your partner if from the beginning the goal was only for money?

Because everyone closest to him is married

Friends, best friends, cousins, nephews, office mates, little friends, neighbors' children are all married and you are not? This should not be used as a reason to want to get married soon. Because you may not have found the right partner and you should not push yourself with people you are not sure of.