YOGYAKARTA Disliked by others, of course the causes are different. But if you feel disliked by other people, not without reason. It could be because of a negative self-image, poor communication habits, or getting unpleasant behavior.
Before listening to the psychotherapist explanation of Kathyagung, Ph.D. regarding the reasons why a person can feel disliked by others, it's important that not everyone will like you. So it's not turning yourself into someone who pleases everyone, but fixing what can be fixed and staying yourself.
When they reunite with high school friends, maybe you feel like one of your friends is keeping their distance. It could be for some reason they do it. One of them is because of various memories. That is, you can look back at memories while you were still in school. Are you shy and put your face down so that other people judge you to be arrogant, or because they don't like you for other reasons. To be sure, everyone has various memories and encourages their attitude towards you at this time.
If you harbor a negative feeling about yourself, saysten by Psychology Today, Monday, April 15, it may be difficult to reach other people.principles advice, think about making some positive changes.
For example, by engaging in good self-care and convincing yourself that you are valuable. Explore positive self-reports to fight negative self-reports. This can help you give a more positive impression and inspire more friendly responses from others and brighten your mood.
Some people are so eager to be liked but unconsciously actually keeps others away. For example, you have a scathing style of humor, a little outrageous comment, or fast openness. This may make you look unpleasant to others.▁cara's advice, do some self-introspection.
If excessive humor and openness makes you considered unpleasant, look for the reason why you are like that. It could be because of social anxiety that can be overcome with positive beliefs and start building close relationships without rushing.
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Are you quick to give advice that you don't ask for? Or voicing opinions and harsh judgments and defaming other people's stories? Sometimes belittle, annoy others when telling stories, or tend to demean other people's achievements, including unpleasant communication styles. This can keep other people away from you. There may be good intentions, but try to be more patient and refrain from giving advice that is not requested.
Due to different perspectives, a person can dislike someone else. It could be because of different or conflicting political alliances related to controversial issues. Perhaps, this is because many negative things are highlighted rather than positive ones. In fact, a positive attitude actually builds dialogue and a healthier relationship.
The five reasons why a person feels disliked above, can be an introspection material. But you don't need to turn yourself into a fun person to like. On the contrary, my message, try to like yourself and believe other people will like you as it is.
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