Understanding Understanding Chemistry Or Connected Feelings In Relationships

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JAKARTA - In human interaction, chemistry is manifested in everyday relationships, such as in friendship and marriage. Simply put, chemistry is a feeling of connectedness with other people. This is a form of attraction and wants something more than that person. Chemistry is divided into several groups as follows, reported by Very Well Mind, Wednesday, March 13.

People you choose as friends are likely to have the same interests, politics, and/or demographics as you. But friendship is not only established because someone has a similar taste to you. On the other hand, friendship chemistry plays a big role in determining who is chosen to be friends.

If you once had a colleague you liked to work on projects with, you might have career chemistry with that person. This form of chemistry is more specific than the chemistry of friendship, and does not always involve a person's tastes or interests. On the other hand, it is a relationship and dynamics of productive feelings and is inspired by others.

You can easily throw ideas at each other, share ideas, and feel that what you create together is better than work if done individually.

Sexual chemistry is what you feel about someone you want to have sex with. If this is a face-to-face experience, it is believed that you are responding to the person, which is a hormone that helps understand how someone will be as a partner.

When someone is remotely, you can react to photos, sounds, writings, or videos. An example of chemistry even though you are far away is a celebrity crush, where you have the desire to be close to someone but have never met him.

Sexual chemistry is often felt visually in the body. You can feel shortness of breath, sweating, warm, or excited when you see or talk to someone you feel the sexual attraction of.

Sexual chemistry is usually part of romantic chemistry, but not always so. Romantic chemistry centers on what you think about romance. For you, this may mean giving/receiving flowers, romantic dinners, or talking about your hopes and dreams after having sex.

Romantic and sexual chemistry usually takes you into an attractive relationship to others. And the desire to share their lives with them. However, there are many stories about people who slowly fall in love with each other. Maybe at first they were friends over the years, or co-workers, or go to school together. They may be acquaintances who never really pay attention or focus on each other's attention to one another until a meeting or the situation happens.

Chemistry may grow slowly in this relationship, and people may become attracted to each other gradually. They even slowly develop romantic feelings without realizing it, until others reveal it.

Chemistry can change and develop over time in a relationship. It can even decrease over time. If so, there is a possibility to restore it through activities that can reconnect you and your partner. Such as open communication, trying new things together, doing deep talks, and making more physical contact.