5 Differences In Healthy Narsism And Crossing Limits

Illustration of healthy exhibitionism (Freepic/diana.gytsku)

YOGYAKARTA Narsism is about how one views oneself in relationships with others. Often this behavior is viewed negative because it passes through healthy boundaries in the realm of relations. Some experts also say, maybe this personality can be expressed in a healthy way.

Healthy Narsism, according to psychologistikona Lira de la Rosa, is often equated with something bad. A person who acts according to his own interests, is notpanic. But such behavior is usually associated with crissism. Therefore, when selfish behavior is wise and not evil, it can be considered a healthy narism'.

The characteristics of healthy disability, including having a positive self-image, high self-esteem, sufficient self-confidence, and acceptable level of self-interest. This concept, in fact, has existed since more than a century first created by Sigmund Freud, is called primary crissism. It refers to the natural part of humans to defend themselves. Primary Narsism in the 1930s was used by Paul Federn referring to self-love.

In the 1970s, the idea was of interest to the psychoanalysis of Heinz Kohut, to describe normal disability as part of the maturation process. Children whose needs are met, develop a healthy self-esteem and self-confidence. Even so, healthy disability is not a clinical term.

When people talk about healthy disability, they may talk about the quality and positive aspects of disability, explained Lira de la Rosa as reported by PsychCentral. So what are the differences of healthy crissisism and those that cross the line or are not healthy? Here are the five differences.

Healthy Narsism talks about achievements in job interviews. But for unhealthy disability, it is often talked about when boasting about the achievements at dinner parties. This means, someone who ispansic but healthy, recognizes the boundaries in which he must tell his achievements confidently and when to be modest or not boast about the achievements achieved.

In a healthy romantic relationship, your partner understands and understands the needs of their partner. They do not manipulate your partner to meet personal needs. Characteristics of dyssisism that are not healthy, they find it difficult to empathize and understand the needs of others.

Perhaps the aspect of sincerity is difficult to trace. But healthy disability knows that sincerity and honesty can be the basis of good social relations. While pretending to be friends with someone because they have resources or connections, it is certainly a bad characteristic of disability.

Everyone makes mistakes, but admitting and ways to correct mistakes can be done by someone. If it's bad disability, justify its behavior even if it's wrong or doesn't want to admit it's wrong.

Healthy Narsism does not seek validation from others. But vice versa, when someone values other people, praises that appearance and work without looking for is a characteristic of healthy crissisism.

Those are the fifth difference in healthy crissisism and crossing boundaries. De la Rosa also explained that disability is healthy followed by the ability to understand healthy boundaries, communicate assertively, have quality relationships, and be proud of abilities and achievements.