8 Differences In The Type Of Alpha Men And Beta Men, Which Are You?

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JAKARTA - Have you ever heard the term alpha male and beta male? If not, don't be confused. Simply put, alpha male is commonly referred to as a men'smer, while beta male male male is referred to as cupu and not attractive (nerd). The alpha man also has a more dominant and stronger personality. On the other hand, beta is considered as a more obedient and weaker man.

If you are still confused about categorifying your personality, here's VOI launched Inspiring Tips, Friday, November 4, sharing differences in the personality types of alpha and beta men.

The alpha man has a strong basis of self-confidence. He is not easily intimidated by others, nor does he always have self-confidence when he is in the midst of many people. alpha men tend to think about themselves and are able to do many things alone.

On the other hand, beta men are the opposite of alpha in terms of self-esteem. The level of self-confidence of beta men is low so it is unreliable to be spokespersons. In addition, they are easily intimidated by local people so that beta men don't like socializing.

The alpha man is very vocal about his thoughts and ideas. This makes him think more critically about what other people say or say. This attitude makes it difficult for him to convince. He also likes to maintain his opinion and does not hesitate to engage in arguments.

In contrast, beta men don't like to argue with people. To avoid conflict, he would just nod and agree to what other people tell him. He is not confident enough to express his own opinion for fear of falling stupid. That's why beta men like to keep their own thoughts and will say when asked.

Because they have high self-confidence, it's no wonder that alpha's male nature tends to be arrogant. That's why many alphas are involved in conflicts with other people. In addition, their know-howness also sometimes annoys people.

Meanwhile, the low self-confidence quality makes beta men more humble. They don't think they are tall. So people feel they are more easily approached and comfortable to be friends with.

The alpha man is an individual who likes strategy so everything must be planned. They will set a life goal and will only focus on making plans so that the goal is achieved.

Meanwhile, beta men live by the current. He will take whatever opportunities come and live life based on what he had at that time. He also has dreams, but his focus is only on what he now has.

The alpha man sometimes becomes poison in the workplace because of his competitive personality. He always wanted to be number one. So, he will consider co-workers as rivals. Making every thing as competition is his motivation.

Another thing with beta men. They are quite satisfied with just being productive employees. He doesn't like competition. The goal is to complete the job that has been given by his superiors.

The alpha man is believed to be born a leader. So it's no wonder most tops have male alpha characters. Because they like to lead, alpha men tend to create their own organizations or companies.

While beta men have the basic nature of being obedient. He is comfortable to obey or follow orders from others and does not mind if there are stronger parties than him.

In a romantic relationship, the alpha man is an initiator. If he likes someone, he will express his feelings proactively or more openly approach the woman he likes.

Meanwhile, beta men usually end up being friends with people they like because they are less aggressive in expressing their feelings. Beta men feel satisfied being by the side of the people they like as friends.

The alpha man makes decisions based on rational needs and thoughts. He does not let emotions master his judgment. On the other hand, beta men are more guided by emotions when making decisions. He thinks about what can make him and loved ones happy.