YOGYAKARTA The moment of making love and every challenge needs to be agreed upon by everyone from a partner. This is called healthy lovemaking based on consent. Including challenges that can be done to increase the moment of making love getting hotter.
A relationship based on commitment, involves trust, shared interest, communication, and wanting each other. Over time, it is natural that your sex life and your partner change. Launching WeddingWire, Monday, October 17, couples need to explore intimacy to improve relationship quality. According to expert recommendations, here are the challenges that need to be tried to increase the hot moment of making love.
Like Cox, sex educator and author say that not having sex for 30 whole days. Not making love doesn't mean not giving each other touch. Precisely with kissing, hand stimulation, to promulgation, or without penetration can increase orgasm.
"It forces couples out of the usual sex routine and comes with new ideas and a way to give each other pleasure," Cox said.
Megwyin White, director of intimacy and education director for Satisfyer said that new sensations can be surprising and refresh the moment of making love. One easy way to get started is to close each other's eyes and give each other sensual massage.
The closing of the sense of sight will increase all other senses and help build anticipation and desire. It also gives you the opportunity to experiment in providing stimulus, playing with the power of sound, and increasing your partner's orgasm," White explained.
Once you and your partner have been committed for a long time, you both know exactly how to climax each other. Touch in this way, touch there or move with a certain rhythm. Because you are used to the same routine, you may no longer be excited to make love in bed.
According to Cox, the challenge of fun sex is to work together to achieve orgasm in a different way every time you make love. So, apart from penetration, you can try to enter the game by agreement or consent.
Sexologist, sex expert, and educator Marci Renee Stewart, MA., said that if you both agree to make love every day, it can create extraordinary intimacy.
By using lubricants and having free time filled together, you can really increase the hormone feeling good serotone, oxytocin, dopamine- and get closer to your lover. When it comes to seven days, add time for more difficult challenges," Stewart suggests.
Making love can not only be done in the room and in bed. You and your partner can explore other rooms, such as in the bathroom, on the sofa, or in the kitchen. The new location will help your partner be more creative and try a new position.
Called the quickie sex, which Cox says can be helped by a timer. In a short time, you and your partner won't waste this little time.
In addition to the challenges above that make the moment of making love even hotter, couples need to sit and chat seriously about what works and doesn't work in your sex life. If it's fun, it could add to other explorations, White suggested.
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