Making Love Can Be Enjoyable Without Determination, Here's A Recommendation Of Sex Critics

Illustration of non-intrusion lovemaking with psychotherapist recommendations (Freepik/Prostoleh)

YOGYAKARTA According to research conducted in 2017, not every act of making love with penetration can get satisfaction or orgasm. Based on the research published in the journal Sex and Marital Theater, several non-prational sex positions need to be considered to generate and potentially get an orgasm.

Rachel Wright, MA., LMFT., a psychotherapist who focuses on relationship therapy, mental health, and sex, recommends every couple to explore and find out about sexual activity in addition to penetration. Here's Wright's recommendations reported by Men's Health, Monday, September 5.

Intimate activities with a partner by dressing up or known as a papas in a pod, can be a variation. This penetrationless activity, done with you and your partner sitting side by side. Direct your head against each other. You can press each other's feet, touch your head, and focus on the sensation of a kiss.

Second activity, as a variation of unintrusive intercourse, couples can narrow each other's arms with one person narrowed to the wall. Your partner will touch and explore sensitive body parts. According to Wright, this method is useful for increasing the dynamics of sensations to stimulation through touch.

How to do it by taking a spoon position with a partner. But not with penetration, the couple are both wearing clothes so that sensations arise due to friction and impetus. The benefits, according to Wright, increase pleasure and excite.

Vibrations with rhythm and friction can be obtained by involving a tool called sextoys or lovetoys. Make an agreement first with your partner. After both agree, make a schedule for the two of you and try to use the vibrator to penetrate. When using a vibrator, don't forget to use a lubricant so you don't hurt.

Wright's directive, the peer show is done in a way that one person sits in bed or anywhere that is comfortable. Spread your legs and start touching yourself. Simply put, this way is to see your partner masturbate while your partner can do the same.

That's the sex therapist's recommendation for carrying out penetrationless sex activities. When you and your partner have a positive view of sex, Wright adds, it's important to explore, explore, and find out sexual activity other than penetration.