When Making Love, Why Does Clitoral Stimulation Need To Be Done? Husband Must Know How!

Illustration of the importance of clitoral stimulation (Unsplash/Malvestida Magazine)

JAKARTA – Pulling a blanket and being alone in bed with a partner when the weather is cold feels warmer. But there are things you should not miss, stimulation of the wife's clitoris is the key to the pleasure of making love.

A study, conducted in 2017 published in the journal Sex and Marital Therapy wrote that the clitoris has about 8,000 nerve endings and is roughly twice as many as in the penis. The study also found that only 18 percent of women were able to orgasm from penetration, while another 82 percent needed clitoral stimulation to orgasm.

The size of the clitoris is about the size of a small shirt. It is located above the vaginal opening or the top of the vulva. When touched rhythmically, all nerves work. Natural lubricant will come out and help facilitate penetration. In addition, how to stimulate the clitoris also needs to be known by the husband. How to? The following are recommendations from sex educators reported by Bustle, Wednesday, November 17.

The clit clock game

Stimulating the wife's clitoris can be imagined like a clock, where the top is the number 12. Husbands can start from the top of the clitoris and rotate clockwise. According to Kenneth Play, playing with the clitoris is like turning a clock hand with a finger. Start at twelve and rotate slowly. Kenneth's suggestion, ask the wife to tell which place feels the most delicious.

Play variety of moves

After trying to find the exact location, there are things you need to vary. Kenneth says, try applying pressure, friction, playing speed and angle. You can free your partner to sigh and make noises as a sign of pleasure.

Stay consistent

When you find what makes your wife feel sexual pleasure, go ahead and stay consistent. Let the lubricant spill and the fun overwhelm your bed games with your partner.

“You don't need a million different tricks, you just have to find things they like and repeat them consistently,” advises Kenneth.

Activate two fingers

Anne Louise Burdett, a certified sex educator, says activating two fingers, the index and middle fingers, is a sign of peace.

"Put your fingers in a peace sign and with plenty of lubricant, slide them up and down the inside of the labia majora," explains Burdett.

Here you stimulate the expanded internal structure of the clitoris. This tissue, called erectile tissue, is very sensitive when it enlarges, making the area hotter and throbbing.

When 'playing' variations of finger movements, suggests Burdett, have your partner breathe and ask if they want more or less pressure.

Stimulation of the wife's clitoris by the husband can be done simultaneously with penetration. Keep exploring sex positions so that you both get pleasure and a pleasant sex sensation.