Motivation And Support Of Parents Help Children Live Fasting In Enthusiasm

JAKARTA - Guide children so that they can fast smoothly requires emotional support, a patient approach, and a pleasant strategy. Parents have an important role in creating a positive atmosphere during the month of Ramadan so that children do not feel burdened.

Providing an understanding of the meaning of fasting, providing real examples, and building family togetherness are the main keys in helping children carry out this worship with enthusiasm.

Child and family psychologist from the Faculty of Psychology, University of Indonesia, Sani B. Hermawan, said that children need an external push to fast, especially because they do not fully understand the meaning and obligation of fasting in Islam.

Therefore, a friendly and motivating approach is needed so that children feel comfortable while learning to fast.

One way that parents can do is to give awards or gifts as a form of appreciation for their children's businesses in fasting.

"Gifts don't always have to be big or luxurious, it's enough that something children like, such as books, toys, or even pocket money. Importantly, this gift is a form of support and motivation," Sani said, as quoted by ANTARA.

He also emphasized the importance of an agreement at the beginning between parents and children regarding the form of gifts and the expected achievements. However, Sani suggested that gifts be given at the end of the fasting period, not every day.

"If given directly after the child fasts for one day, the child may feel that it is enough and lose motivation to continue fasting," he added.

In addition to giving gifts, simple appreciation such as praise or recognition of children's businesses also has a big impact. Parents can give praise when the child manages to wake up the sahur or finish half a day of fasting.

"Focus on the child's business, not just the end result. Children need to feel their struggle is appreciated," said Sani.

The month of Ramadan is also the right moment to strengthen family relations and instill a disciplined value in children. Involving children in Ramadan routines, such as sahur together, breaking timely, and praying in congregation, can help them feel the meaning of togetherness while growing the spirit to fast.

With age, children are expected to be able to build motivation from within themselves to fast without having to depend on gifts. Through a supportive and loving approach, children will grow to understand the meaning of fasting and implement it with awareness and sincerity.