Mengkuni Hobby After Marriage, Encourages Couples To Respect Joint Time

YOGYAKARTA After getting married, couples don't have to spend time together all the time. Independence is still needed. Apart from still giving each other space to pursue their own hobbies. According to relationship expert and therapist Jaime Bronstein, independence in a couple relationship is an important factor. Like pursuing whatever the hobby you like. In addition, pursuing a hobby is also useful for encouraging couples to respect mutual time.

Independence in relationships is an important factor in the success of a partner. It's great fun for couples to spend a lot of time together; but having their own interests and hobbies can make relationships healthier," explains Bronstein.

Spending all the time together, potentially pairwise relationships feel monotonous. So focusing on your own interests regularly can create space for freshness in partnership, added Bronstein. You and your partner don't have to have the same interests or hobbies, because this will also have the potential for boredom. It's different when you and your partner have their own hobbies that will eventually feel happy when they meet and tell stories about their respective days.

There's a reason why absence makes the heart more loveful, says Bronstein. When you're not with your partner, you'll both appreciate the time together. Because when you're not together, you or your partner can't wait to tell you everything you're thinking about. Spending time pursuing each other's hobbies also makes you and your partner focus on yourself as individuals. That way, the two feel meaningful to show the best side of yourself honestly.

One of the best things about having a relationship is not only learning about people you love. But also learn about why they love the things they love. This creates an opportunity to deepen intimacy.

If you are in a long-term relationship or marriage and find it difficult to hone your own hobbies, interests, and pleasure, Bronstein provides advice. The advice, try to remember when you were a child about what excites you.

If you like dancing, start taking dance classes. If you like embroidering, you can make simple crafts or join small groups to exchange knowledge. Please note, apart from pursuing a useful hobby of encouraging time together with a partner more meaningful, it also triggers self-creation. Bronstein closure reported by Brides, Monday, February 24, hobbies trigger creativity and when we are creative, we are happier and the relationship develops.