Stress-Free, Here Are 7 Ways To Strengthen In-law And In-law Relationships

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JAKARTA - After getting married, a woman's life changes completely. Because you are used to your own mother, it is not surprising that bonding with Mother-in-law is one of the things that is difficult to do. If you are looking for ways to bond with Mother-in-law, here are some of her ideas.

The kitchen is always the heart of the house wherever you are. Cooking together will create warmth between you and Mother-in-law. Often doing this activity together in the end will give sweet memories related to cooking and food.

Look at your partner and in-law's childhood photos. Ask Mother-in-law if she has time to share photos of your partner's childhood and pay attention to her sincere smile. Ask her a few things and she will share some interesting memories and facts about the people in your new family.

Invite Mother-in-law to shop together. Show him up, ask his opinion about what you want to buy for yourself. You will know his taste, as well as his level of patience. You can also offer to buy some of the items he wants the most. Otherwise, window shopping can also be a fun activity to do together.

In addition to going shopping, take your in-laws to watch movies together in theaters or sports matches you like. This activity will add to the experience you have with your in-laws. And also not forcing you and your parents-in-law to talk to each other. You can always discuss the plot of the movie you watched afterwards.

After discussing with your partner, try holding a board game at night. Make it a routine activity that is carried out with the family to build warmth. Play a monopoly or even a picionary! Some games reveal many things about other people's personalities, so do it.

Order a body care package for several hours at a spa or salon. Call the salon service at home if you want and ask the men to leave you and Mrs. In-laws both have a fun relaxing time.

Every now and then contact her in-laws to understand her hobby. If he likes gardening, sometimes touch him. Ask him first and see if you can be allowed to join. You'd be surprised how much knowledge he knows about the realm that has been occupied over the years.