Prospective Couples Enter The Green Flag Category If He Has These 9 Characteristics

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JAKARTA - Recognizing the sign of a 'green flag' in relationships is important as an investment in long-term relationship quality. The green flag means an indication that a person or relationship has potential for a healthy and enjoyable future.

"Green flags appear in a person's words and behavior, and can teach you about integrity and good character," said relationship therapist Suzy Daren, LMFT, as reported by Cosmopolitan, Tuesday, December 24.

Green flag may be different from the quality you dream of when you are a teenager, for example based on appearance or chemistry. Then, what are the signs of a green flag in relationships? Here's the review.

Nothing more interesting than someone who knows what he's looking for and isn't afraid to say. Whether it's about the desire to establish a committed relationship or just an ordinary date, he's open about his intentions and goals. There's no guessing game here, just pure and honest communication.

Accountability is the secret of emotional maturity. When he made a mistake he admitted it instead of blaming other people or other things. Bon bonus points if he apologized sincerely and tried to improve things.

You'll know you've found someone special when he respects your boundaries. Whether it's your need for personal space, a decision not to share something, or your commitment to spending time separated from friends. He'll accept it with pleasure. Remember, boundaries are the same as respect.

This one is important. If you can appear as a unique and what you are, for example laughing openly, crying during bad days, and so on without fear of being judged, it is a sign of great danger. Being with him feels like going home, and isn't that what you're looking for?

You talk about actively listening here, not just nodding while scrolling through your phone. While with him, you feel listened to and appreciated. He asks further questions, given the little things you say, and really cares about what's on your mind.

Whether you're training for marathons, starting a business, or mastering the art of making sourdough bread, your potential partner always encourages you at every step. He's not intimidated by ambition, but inspired by it. Teamwork makes dreams come true, right?

Quarrels occur even in the healthiest relationship. The key is how to handle them. Prospective couples who have a green flag face disputes calmly and want to find a solution. No quarrels, no passive-aggressive comments, only two adults solve the problem.

Pay attention to the way he treats servants, baristas, and strangers on the street. Kindness is the window of his character. If he is always wise and pays attention to people who can't reward anything, you have found someone worth defending.

This one may sound clear, but it should be said that he is ready to be in a relationship. He is not fixated on his ex or avoiding emotional intimacy. He is open, vulnerable, and willing to build something meaningful with you.

While the red flag warns you to stay away, the green flag gives you the green light to move forward. It is the foundation of a healthy and happy relationship. So, if you're close to someone right now, don't forget to pay attention to the green flag given. You deserve to get someone who makes you feel safe, valued, and celebrated. Happy dating.