Not Longing, Know 10 Characteristics A Person Has Adults Mentally

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JAKARTA - Many people claim to be adults at a certain age. However, age is just a number. You can only claim to be adults if you consistently behave and think as an adult.

If you want to evaluate whether you're really mature or not. Here are some signs you have to look for in yourself, pending Inspiring Tips, Wednesday, September 21.

Adult individuals have great respect for commitment. When they say "yes" for something, they will not back down and keep moving forward. They will fully commit to doing what has been agreed to.

In addition, maturity makes people realize that they are better off grateful for the good things than constantly complaining about bad things. They are wise enough to understand that life is hard. So they should be grateful for every blessing or small happiness.

Adults mentally not only respect commitment but also keep their promises. They understand the meaning of making real promises. So when they promise someone else, they tend to keep them.

Adults do not hesitate to accept opinions or input from others. When listening to other people's ideas, they will listen carefully and without bias and any prejudices.

An adult will also not be easily discouraged when criticized. Instead of being too sensitive, they boldly accepted the criticism and used it to evaluate themselves. They know that these criticisms have lessons that can help them thrive.

Adults are fully responsible for the failures they have experienced. They admit more mistakes than make excuses for defending themselves. They can humbly apologize and admit mistakes without blaming others or circumstances.

Sometimes, people don't need advice but only ears to listen. A mature individual understands this. That's why they know when to keep their mouths shut and let others express themselves. They are also careful in expressing input. They prefer to listen carefully before saying anything.

Another sign that a person is an adult is not easily offended by criticism, bad jokes, and jokes. They don't let what other people say affect them. They filter what they hear and ignore that it doesn't work for them.

Adults admit that they are not perfect. For that, they will not get involved in disappointment every time they make mistakes. To make things lighter, they can laugh at themselves for silly mistakes, like embarrassing things they do.

Another indication that a person is mentally mature is respecting cultural differences, beliefs, principles, and the abilities of people. They don't force their ideas or mock others because they have different views.