In Order Not To Hurt Each Other, This Is A Healthy Way To End Friendship

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JAKARTA - When you first make new friends, you may not think about the bad possibilities that will happen, such as ending the relationship. Yes, it is undeniable that some people, sooner or later will leave in your life.

Everyone grows up and separates for various reasons and not all friendships last a lifetime.

If there are those who are trying to maintain friendly relations, at the same time there are also those who are thinking of ways to break those ties. Unlike romantic relationships that are easily resolved, friendship bonds need their own way of ending.

If you are on the verge of confusion, VOI cited Very Well Mind, Wednesday, March 30, providing tips and tricks on how to end a friendship so as not to hurt each other.

Disappear slowly

No need to worry if you are determined to break off the friendship. Ending it naturally is sometimes the best option. You can stop texting first and see if they notice the signal you're sending them on purpose. Usually, if you stop texting suddenly, your best friend will notice and slowly walk away.

Communication

If disappearing does not also make them sensitive, then try to communicate with friends. Tell them how you feel. Avoid mentioning all the bad things he's ever done and focus on how you convey your point of ending the friendship.

Send long message

If texting is your preferred way of breaking up with your best friend, be sure to remain polite. Instead of focusing too much on the reason for “breaking up”, it would be better if you remind your best friend about the moments they had together. Try to send emails or messages on their social media well. Avoid harsh words or arguments, only bitter ending.

Make sure to keep it a secret between you

There is no need to tell everyone that the friendship has ended. Because it will only make it feel too dramatic. You and your ex-best friend are just adults who have decided not to be together anymore and there's nothing wrong with that.

Choose the right time

It would be better to try to find the right time to contact them. Maybe a friend is going through a difficult time. If you're sensitive, you shouldn't stress them out by telling them you want to break the friendship. Check first before sending them a message, okay?