5 Topics You Should Not Talk About After Making Love With Your Husband

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JAKARTA - Pillowtalk is an intimate conversation that couples do in bed. This is an important moment that you and your husband can do after having sex, you know! Even though it seems trivial, this moment is important to keep your relationship with your husband durable and harmonious.

However, it's a good idea to pay attention to the topic of conversation with your husband during Pillowtalk. It's best to have small, light conversations. Launching from Herstory, Friday, August 13, avoid these 5 topics of conversation after making love with your husband.

Don't criticize her appearance

After sex, the thing that couples want to get is a compliment or thank you. Judging his appearance while 'playing' will make the moment of intimacy disappear instantly. Unless he asks your opinion about his appearance earlier.

Don't talk about what's going on

Maybe you and your partner have problems before having sex, or you are doing make up sex. Don't talk about anything serious or even make him angry. Instantly he will not be in the mood and may even be angry with you with the timing that is not right.

Don't talk about past sexual experiences

Sharing sexual experiences with your partner while with your ex is important. But you can share it when after sex. This will actually make you do comparisons between different men.

Don't use sex to make him agree

If you have a desire or thing you want to do but he doesn't agree, don't use sex as a medium. This will make him feel manipulated by you. The purpose of sex is to please each other's partners, not to take advantage of events.

Don't compare couples

Whether it's comparing your partner with your past experiences, or comparing your partner's performance with what you've watched. The habit of comparing like this can lead to fights and eventually make the sex session you just did seem in vain.