Don't Just Praise Their Look, These Are 7 Other Things To Praise From Girls

Illustration praising a girl (Pexels/Gustavo Fring)

JAKARTA – For those of you who have a daughter, there are several things about her attitude and character that deserve praise. Not only how to maintain appearance and self, but the following 7 things need to be appreciated.

Independence

Children who are able to overcome their fears, such as being afraid of the dark, insects, and going somewhere alone, are independent. This attitude needs to be appreciated by his parents.

Abilities related to intelligence

You need to understand that intelligence is not solely a high value in formal schools. As reported by The Asian Parents, Monday, June 28, intelligence includes verbal, logical, or mathematical intelligence, bodily-kinesthetic, and musical.

There is also spatial intelligence which is represented by the ability to understand shapes and images. In addition, interpersonal intelligence includes the ability to interact with others as well as intrapersonal abilities related to self-awareness and introspection.

Naturalistic abilities complement a number of children's intelligence which is expressed by an attitude of being connected to nature and the world.

From simple things, for example, when the children are able to tell the chronology of daily activities, they have verbal and interpersonal skills. That is, give them praise so that each of his abilities develops and becomes meaningful.

Able to control emotions

It's normal for children to have tantrums. But try to agree and challenge them so they can control their own emotions. Well, if they manage to do a challenge then give them praise because they have tried to recognize and control their emotions.

Problem-solving ability

When at school, children meet their peers. It's not impossible that there is a small problem. If they are able to solve their own problems, then give appreciation because they have tried to be wiser and mature.

Work hard

Giving praise in accordance with the positive attitude of the child has a big impact on their growth. Indirectly, to give praise means to give approval. Furthermore, praise is appropriate as a way of educating.

If your child works hard to complete assignments or do homework without anyone's help, including parents, this is worthy of praise.

Giving help to others

Without being asked they voluntarily give help to people in need, meaning they are great children. As social beings, children need to be equipped with an attitude of helping each other without being asked even though at first they need an example from their parents.

Completing responsibilities

Even keeping stationery and putting toys back in their place is a responsible attitude. When your child does it and knows what they have to do becomes their job, don't be afraid to give them credit.