Things To Pay Attention To When Making Love For The First Time

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JAKARTA - Having sex for the first time is often the main focus of several couples to make it memorable. Especially for those who just got married and spent the first night together.

Not infrequently the feeling is crazy when you try it for the first time. Embarrassment, awkwardness, and nervousness are getting mixed up and make you confused about how to act and start. Then how to solve it?

So that you and your partner get the satisfaction of making love, it's a good idea to start with a slow touch on the body. Invite your partner to talk to make the atmosphere more comfortable and less stressful. In addition to these methods, summarized from various sources, here are other ways that can make this moment more memorable in life.

Do it slowly

When you first have sex with your partner, the thing to pay attention to is the tempo of the game. The slower the movement, the more fun sex will be!

Launching the Healthline page, Monday, June 21, slowing penetration makes muscles in sensitive areas such as the vagina and anal more relaxed. So that the moment can be enjoyed with a comfortable feeling.

Don't miss foreplay

The thing that should not be missed when starting love is foreplay! Playing in sensitive areas can make the body receive more stimulation than others. In fact, it can calm the mind, increase body awareness and experience sexual pleasure.

Foreplay helps the body to receive penetration more comfortably. Some men may experience an erection, and women will usually secrete fluid in the vagina, which facilitates sexual intercourse.

Use lubricant

Not everyone wants a lubricant to get a pleasant sexual moment. But if you want easy to play with your partner, this can be an alternative.

Still launching the same page, using a lubricant can minimize pain. Especially when you want to do foreplay such as fingering, handjobs, and other stimuli.

But you should avoid using this if you have planned a pregnancy. A study from the American Society For Reproductive Medicine proves that lubricants can damage the quality of a man's sperm that comes out during sex while slowing it down to an egg.

Exploration of sex positions

If you manage to be comfortable in one position on the first night with him, it never hurts to try other styles to make the moment more enjoyable. Start with casual and simple sex styles like 69, girl-on-top, missionary, and doggy style. Also, adjust this position to the type or gender of your partner to create a sense of comfort between the two of you.

Have a conversation

The pleasures that arise during sex often make you forget to communicate with your partner. Though this makes your moment so much more enjoyable. You can ask him if he's comfortable, what he wants, and what to do afterward. Don't forget to say if you feel uncomfortable and want to try changing positions.

Don't fake an orgasm

One of the dangers of making love for the first time is pretending that you have reached climax or orgasm! Launching the Vice page, 25 percent of women feel satisfied when they have sex for the first time. However, it's a good idea not to make it an achievement when you first start. Feelings of pressure and stress can make this much more difficult to achieve.