JAKARTA - In the midst of the demand to always appear prime, comedian Sule shows a very relaxed and wise attitude in dealing with the aging process.
He publicly admits that he now often wears a hat to cover his white hair, but he doesn't feel insecure at all. When asked if he deliberately covered his gray hair, Sule answered honestly.
"Yes, covering gray hair," said Sule in the South Jakarta area, recently.
However, he emphasized that this does not mean that he refuses to be old.
"Yes, no, if you're old, just old. But we have to be grateful, we're old, we've experienced youth, the young don't necessarily experience old, right," said Sule philosophically.
Instead of complaining, Sule chose to live life sincerely and happily.
"It's forbidden to complain. Heem. If we are sick, we go to a doctor, then we try to be healthy, we are happy, happy, yes. Just go ahead sincerely," he ordered.
Despite trying to use the gray cover shampoo, he felt tired of having to do it constantly and now more comfortable with practical solutions like a hat.
"The important thing is that there is a hat, right," he concluded with a laugh.
Even though he is no longer young, Sule is known to have a very close relationship with her children, often even looking like a friend or "bestie".
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Behind this closeness, Sule shared the philosophy of her modern parenting, in which she chose not to become an authoritarian and demanding parent.
According to Sule, the key to building healthy relationships with children is to provide them with space and trust.
"If we as parents don't sue our children too much," said Sule.
He refused to use the pretext of having paid children since childhood to pressure them.
"Don't overly have power that, 'yes, you are financed by me, you have paid for it since I was little, I took care of it from a small age. 'You have to respect me'," continued Sule.
Sule believes that pressuring children will actually keep them closed. On the other hand, by giving them responsible freedom, children will be more open and continue to respect their parents sincerely.
"If our children give a claim, it cannot be open to us," he explained.
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