Pillow Talk, The Secret To The Lasting Of Husband And Wife Relationships

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JAKARTA - The term pillow talk has recently become famous after becoming one of Zayn Malik's song titles. Actually, the definition of pillow talk itself is a conversation that occurs between a couple on the bed. Usually, the things that are discussed are more intimate and private, and not for other people to know. Pillow talk can be done before or after sex.

Quoted from the Mother and Baby page, Wednesday, May 5, pillow talk is proven to have a positive effect on a relationship. Most couples claim that this intimate conversation can increase the trust, satisfaction, and intimacy between them. For more details, let's take a look at some of the benefits of pillow talk for the husband and wife relationship:

Be more open with your partner

The talk that is done during pillow talk is usually about the marriage relationship that is being undertaken and the experiences that the couple does not share with other people. In addition, pillow talk can also be used as a place to express feelings to one another.

Basically, everyone is different. There are those who easily express their hearts and some are 'ashamed' to talk even with their own partners. Now, this is where pillow talk serves to make couples more open to one another.

Getting Closer to Relationships

By being more open in expressing your feelings, you will feel more relieved and of course closer to your partner. Talking on pillow talk that is only for you and your partner, will make you feel like you have someone you can truly trust to confide in.

This feeling of comfort and trust will make you closer to your partner. Don't forget, the closeness that exists will also make your sex life more beautiful.

Increases Your Love

In general, pillow talk is done in a relaxed state, whether it's lying down or cuddling in bed. When you do this, you and your partner can experience an increase in the hormone oxytocin or what is commonly called the love hormone. Naturally, this hormone can help grow or increase feelings of love for your partner.

More Appreciating Relationships

With openness and good communication, you and your partner can also appreciate your relationship more. When talking to each other and expressing emotions, there will be a sense of mutual understanding and respect between husband and wife. A good emotional relationship can make you fall in love with each other even more.