Prayer So That Husband Remembers Wife Continues And Tips For Building Harmonious Households

Pray for your husband to remember his wife (freepik)

YOGYAKARTA - Prayer is one way for Muslims to ask Allah SWT for everything, including strengthening domestic relations. So is there a prayer for the husband to keep his wife in mind?

One of the prayers that are often offered by wives is prayer so that their husbands always remember and love themselves. This prayer is based on the hope that the marriage relationship will be more harmonious and full of blessings.

There are no specific prayers so that the husband does not forget his wife, but there is one prayer that is often offered by husband and wife is a prayer to ask for halal sustenance and blessings.

Reported from the NU Online page, in a hadith, Rasulullah SAW teaches us to pray: "Let's pray"

All worryhumma bzzrik lflelahl katahl wa brik lahum fiyya warzuqn ikum minhum warzuqhum minn ikuhat. Allahummma bainan mjalan ta il khairin wa farriq bainan saya idz farraqta il miririn

'O Allah, bless me in my family and bless them in me. Give us halal sustenance and blessings.' This prayer contains the hope that Allah SWT will provide sufficient sustenance and benefit all members of the family."

Abdullah bin Mas'ud, who is a friend of the Prophet Muhammad SAW, once gave wise advice to a young man who had just married. This young man is worried that his relationship with his wife will be broken.

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As a solution, Abdullah bin Mas'ud taught a prayer that can be practiced every time he meets his wife. This prayer contains hopes that married couples will always be in harmony, love each other, and complement each other.

Islam highly honors the marriage institution. The Qur'an describes the household as a beautiful gift, a fellowship between two complementary souls.

In Islamic view, husband and wife are equal partners in building a family of sakinah, mawaddah, warahmah. Although the roles of the two are different, their position in God is the same.

In Arabic, the word "zauj" generally refers to the husband, while "zaujah" is for the wife. However, interestingly, the Qur'an often uses the word "zauj" to refer to the two. Ibnu Ashur in his interpretation explains that the use of this same word indicates the equality of married couples in marriage.

In addition, consistency in worshiping God is very important. Love that grows in marriage is a divine gift. Allah SWT is the Almighty to strengthen the bond of love between husband and wife.

Remember, only Allah is turning your heart around. Before getting married, feelings of love may not be as strong as after marriage. However, if we neglect to worship, God can change our hearts at any time.

Therefore, let's always get closer to Him so that love in the household is more lasting.

Third, couples should always pray to Allah SWT, asking their life partners to be a source of peace and happiness in their hearts.

As the word of Allah in the letter al-Furqan verse 74, the Salih people always pray that their partners and descendants become encouragementrs.

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