10 Years Of Marriage, Dude Harlino Still Has Difficulty Understanding Alyssa Soebandono's Feelings

Dude Harlino and Alyssa Soebandono (Instagram @dude2harlino)

JAKARTA - Dude Harlino and Alyssa Soebandono will enter after their 10th year of marriage. Seeing this, Dude admitted that 10 years was not an easy journey for him and Icha, Alyssa Soebandono's nickname.

The reason is, until now they still continue to balance each other as a husband and wife. Not only that, they also feel that they still have to continue to learn to be husband and wife and parents for their two sons.

"On March 22, yes. It turns out that I don't feel like the age of the marriage is quite a lot, the point is that I and Icha are more grateful," said Dude Harlino in the TB Simatupang area, South Jakarta, Saturday, March 9.

"Karena menjalani rumah tangga kan bukan hal yang mudah ya ada hal yang perlu banyak yang perlu digembangkan, di adjust sama sama lain, diprekomnomi, diskomunikasikan, ya kita sampai ke semacam ini, sampai tahun ini masih banyak belajar masing-masing, terutama jadi tua kemudian jadi suami yang baik, jadi istri yang baik itu masih banyak belajar lah," sambungnya.

Therefore, he felt that during his household he continued to gain new knowledge every day. One of them is related to communication related to his own feelings.

Even though it's been 10 years together, sometimes Dude still has difficulty understanding Icha's feelings. However, this has been anticipated by him since the beginning of his marriage to his wife.

"Wow, what is clear is that until this year, I feel that more and more new knowledge we have learned, that's especially when the key words for husband and wife communication are extraordinary. So sometimes husbands can't shoot their wife's heart when asked why? The answer is I'm okay. That's okay, the definition is long, right?," he said.

"That's why I always say that from the beginning of Icha's marriage, sometimes the man can't digest what is in his heart, so it needs clear communication and openness, thank God, from year to year we have learned a lot each other until now, thank God it's getting easier because we understand each other," he concluded.