Know The Difficulty Of Taking Care Of Children Without Assistance, Nikita Willy Invites All Mothers To Respect Their Own Feelings

Nikita Willy and Issa Xander (Instagram/@nikitawillyofficial94)

JAKARTA - Nikita Willy through uploads on social media again shared her experience of taking care of her son Issatsu without the help of a nanny. In the upload, Nikita said that Issa had been experiencing tantrums for two days.

However, Nikita also admitted that she was very tired. Either because of work or facing her child who is in tantrums.

"Two days ago Issa had a long tantrum, yes, like a toddler in general, she tries to express her anger and frustration when she doesn't get what she wants," wrote Nikita Willy on her personal Instagram quoted by VOI, Saturday, October 14.

"When he was calm, I put him to sleep in his room. After that I felt very tired maybe from work or activities on that day and also after facing a tantrumd child," he continued.

Unknowingly, the 29-year-old woman cried because she felt her energy was sucked up. Seeing this situation, Nikita emphasized that she not only felt this feeling herself as a new mother. Second, according to her and Issa, the learning process is still the same.

"Unknowingly I suddenly cried, because I felt Drained (energy drained," continued Nikita.

"What I want to say here is that I'm sure there are many new moms who definitely feel what I feel. When our children learn to regulate their emotions, we are also learning to deal with them, and be the best for them," said Nikita.

For Indra Priawan's wife, this is normal for a mother without a nanny, feeling sad and guilty. This is a form of respecting our own feelings.

"And it's normal to feel sad, feel guilty and even cry, not because we are weak or we fail, but we are respecting our own feelings," he continued.

At the end of the upload, Nikita Willy gave virtual hugs to the mothers out there who were in the same position as herself.

"Hey mama, this is our virtual group hug!" added Nikita.