The Characteristics Of Friends Who Like To Tell Secrets, Avoid them Immediately!

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JAKARTA - Having someone to have fun with and have fun as a place to tell stories is indeed fun. To be a place to tell secrets, you have to believe that the person is trustworthy and helpful, not the other way around.

For that, before telling stories, you must assess whether the person is worthy of being a place to tell secrets or not. Being selective in choosing friends is very necessary so that you do not lose in the future.

Here are some characteristics of friends that you need to be aware of as a 'trash can' when you want to share personal problems.

The one who often slips out

This type of friend is quite dangerous. Even though they are the type to talk to, especially a good listener, they are not necessarily suitable as a friend to share with.

You don't want your biggest secret to be spread because your friends admit to 'accidentally' telling everyone, right? So pay attention to your friends before telling stories.

Liar

Have a lying friend? Better stop telling them your secrets. Because when your secret is spread and it is revealed that they are the culprit, they may deny it and commit the next lie. They will easily twist the facts and put themselves in a safe zone.

Gossiper

Your friend likes to talk about other people and doesn't stop talking about it? Be careful, friends like this may be fun to gossip about other people, but if they run out of gossip later, you could end up being the next gossip. Better stay away from this gossip guys.

Too open

People who are too open also need to be aware of. If they are too easy to tell personal things to you, even if it is badmouthing themselves it could be that at other times the topic about you will also be discussed with others. How? Of course by exposing your secret.

Likes to tell people's secrets

"Hey, don't tell anyone." If your friend makes this sentence a lot, it is definitely not the right person to tell a secret. The proof is, other people's secrets should not be shared with you. This means there is a chance that your story will also be shared with other friends.

Emotional

Of course, you cannot make people with emotional qualities as confidants. The reason is when you tell them something that annoys them, they will actually get carried away.

For example, you tell that one of your close friends and he is being annoying. He will immediately support you but at the same time he will hate the friend. If you have this, it means you are making the atmosphere even hotter. It's dangerous!